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A Loss in the Family - UPDATED

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My father-in-law, Guy Robert Threlkeld ("Bob"), lost a battle with a progressive illness late Thursday night and passed away. My wife Debbie has been making frequent trips to Savannah lately to spend time with him, and it helped his spirits immensely. Bob was a great man - a good father, saavy businessman, and great father-in-law. I loved him very much. Debbie was very close with her father, and loved spending time with him or even just talking on the phone. He and his wife Rochelle were very supportive of Debbie and I getting married, even when no one else in the family was.

I could go on and on about the many things I loved about Bob - and I especially loved the close and tender relationship that he and Debbie shared. In fact, I looked to Bob as a role model of how to be a good father, since my own left a great deal to be desired. Debbie is the youngest of three, and she has always been "Daddy's Little Girl". So, even though my wife knew that this day was inevitable, and even though she tried mightily to prepare herself for this loss, it still has hit her hard. Very hard.

So, I will probably not be able to post anything here or on the Voices blog until mid-to-late next week.

When I know the funeral arrangements, I'll post them.

Please keep Debbie and my family in your thoughts (or prayers for those of you who are so inclined).

Debbie is an amazingly tough woman, and I know she'll get through this. Her toughness is a trait she acquired from an exceptional man - her father.

Rock

UPDATE: In lieu of flowers please make a donation in his honor to one of the following:

If you want to make a donation and send flowers, the funeral home's address is:

Fairhaven Funeral Home
2794 West US Highway 80
Garden City, GA 31408

Thanks again to everyone for your kind support. It means a lot to my family.

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1 - My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Emoticon

2 - I know how it feels to lose a parent (I lost bot mine already). My thoughts and heart is with Debbie and you. The saying is "time heal all wounds", but it is not true. You learn to live with it. And it takes time. Give it the time needed to grieve.
It sounds like your father-in-law was a great man, and I understand it is a huge loss for your family. You are all in my thoughts.

3 - So sorry for your family's loss. You are in my thoughts.

4 - My condolences to you and your wife, Rocky.

5 - I'm sorry for your family's loss. There is no way to be prepared for losing a parent.
You and your family are in my thoughts.

6 - Our condolences to your wife and extended family. Sounds like a great guy. You'll be in our thoughts.

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